Netball

Saw an article on Today's newspaper... our S'pore Netball girls made it into the finals...

This sport gave me a lot of memories.... I used to be a very sporting gal who loves outdoor activities.. but now, a very 'nua' girl..

It made me think back to my sec sch days... was a nobody in the team.. until 1 year of hard work, managed to make it into the reserve team, but yet always got the chance to play in tournaments.... Coach trained me to shoot w/o thinking... so that time,my shooting skills was almost to 100% accuracy....

I was playing GS most of the time... n when i was in sec 4, i was nominated to b the captain... it was so fun that time... missed it so much... My elder sis was also a netball player.. n she is much better than me.. she plays GA... we r both shooters.. but not the same sch lah...

After watching this article.. felt so happy for the team... i hope they can get champion this time... how i wish i can go n play again... too bad.. hopefully asthma dun act up all the time...

Fruitful Trip to The Concourse 02-09-07

Yesterday i made a trip to The Concourse, to buy the heart-shaped balloons for our ROM solemnisation ceremony.... Bong has to work,so i went with my parents...

Yes,i did get the balloons!!! N we went to the floral shops to take a walk, then i saw a decor,which is quite cute... so i bought it.. Planned to put on the solemnisation table, but my coordinator said that there will b a flower arrangement on the table liao, so i think i'll put it on the recept table instead...

So far, til now,there's nothing much to do for my preparation.... collating the photos for MotionImage to do our photo montage... We've chosen already... these few days/weeks,i'll sit down n burn the photos n the song into the CD-rom... then will choose a day to go down to pass them the CD....

Album Layout viewing 01-09-07

A fresh start of a new month... it seems to be so fast,now is already September... yesterday, we had our Teachers' Day dinner @ Le Meridien hotel.... had lucky draws, food, games etc.. i managed to win the 26th prize, which was a $30 Takashimaya Voucher.... oh god,that was not wat i want!! i wanted the LG DVD KARAOKE PLAYER.... haiz... well, not going to talk abt it animore...

Was so tired,as i slept at around 1am+... today we had to go down to Seletar to view our album layout... we reached early... appointment was at 1pm.. but we reached Seletar at around 12.40pm....

The designer brought us to the room to view the layout... our album is kua ye album, with 14 pages... we were quite happy with the designs they made... just for 1 photo, which we wanted him to edit... n thats all... Bong has no much comments on the album layout design.. though in the beginning i had... but since he was ok with it, then it's oso fine with me... I was still praying that, hopefully it turns out ok, n dun make me feel disappointed with them... luckily,we didn't demand to amend here n there.... if no much of a prob,next month will get the albums n photos.. i oso gotten our wedding photos in CD-rom... soon, i think i will proceed down to MotionImage to get our photo montage done... YES!! another thing settled!!! can rest my mind in peace...

oh,i forgot!! i forgot to wish myself a very happy TEACHERS' DAY!!

Downcounting 4 months to my Big Day!

Here i am again... downcounting to my big day...

Let me think,wat do i have to update?? hmm... i got it! my ang bao box is almost done... the wedding bears n ribbon are already on the box... i just need slightly more decor to the box, n yet not exaggerating....

If nothing goes wrong,i'll b going down to Seletar Broadway to view my wedding album layout.. i'm keeping my fingers cross... hope i can go down n view... coz i'm looking forward... hehe

I've done the collation of the games that we'll b playing on my big day... but haven't show the draft to my jie meis... will meet them up most prob in late october to show them,n oso to go buy the necessary stuff for the games... but something to b sad,yesterday i saw some candles,which r very nice,n suitable for my jie meis to hold during the march in.. but today when i go gek poh n see,hopefully to purchase them,but they r already out of stock!!! oh my god... need to source similar nice candles at other places....

There r some more things which i need to look into... i need to search for red heart shape balloons... as i need them for my ROM solemnisation ceremony.... Review of the whole prog for the day; meeting up with the jie meis to get the things bought; arrange a date for the jie meis n xiong dis to go HIA to practise on the march in etc.. more things to b done n assessed for the next coming few months b4 my wedding... Hope everything goes on smoothly!!

LOVE - to love, or not to love

　有人为爱而生，有人不需要爱的滋润。有些人不能没有爱情，但也有人能在没有爱情的情况下，活得多姿多彩。那，到底爱是可有还是可无？

　有人失去爱情，就无法生存。有人拥有爱情，又不会珍惜。俗话说的好，等到失去了才知道什么是珍惜。我记得曾经听过有人告诉我，人生若缺少了爱情，生活就会变得非常枯燥乏味。有了爱情，人生才会精彩。可是，当人失恋了，那种过程却是很难熬的，整日就像度日如年。我也曾经拥有甜蜜的爱情，也曾经尝过苦果。笑容以及眼泪也跟着爱情的脚步和节奏一次一次地浮现在表情丰富的脸蛋上。

　幸福和悲哀往往只是一线之差，我们都没有权利和选择。可以把责任推给在上天的月老吗？幸福，多亏月老眷恋自己、爱惜自己，才使自己拥有幸福的滋味。悲哀，就怨天尤人。怨月老，怪他牵错红线，导致自己陷入堕落的深渊。

　我知道拥有爱情的利与弊。因为度过两种极端的滋味，才让我领略到，爱情是不能强求的。曾经奢望会有奇迹的出现，一盼就盼了许多年。曾经以为是理所当然，所以不懂珍惜，导致错过良好姻缘。曾经受过从未发生在自己身上的极度伤害，才领悟到爱情所带来的灾害。到底，拥有爱情是好的还是坏的？我相信，人各有志。每个人对爱情的解说都不一样。

　经过无数的经历，不管是甜蜜的还是痛苦的，这些都是成年往事，应该随着云烟飘散而去。人要往前走，这点我知道。我也正在努力地往这个方向前进。经过这么多的事情，让我对爱情有新的一套说法。原来，伤心不是最痛苦的，要彻底地忘记一个人是那么难的事。事实是不能抵赖的。我们可以做的是，把这个无法忘记的人，永远地埋藏在自己的心里，而且是放在最重要的地方。幸福，不是一定要拥有这个人，而是给他自由。他幸福，就是自己幸福。我也在给自己空间，让自己幸福。
　

Inconsiderate people

it has been quite some time ever since i took a bus... still got take bus lah, but not so frequent...

Last friday,i was conducting PSLE oral at a school which is very near to my house, so i didn't drive... Bong acc me to the school, n when i finished, he came to fetch me... after the Oral,we were waiting for 243 to go JP for lunch... just when we went up the bus, there was this guy,who is extremely selfish n inconsiderate.. we were standing, n he has 1 vacant seat,but he chose to place his briefcase there,n thus no 1 can sit beside him... n he was trying to act blur n etc.. the sight of him made me feel like puking!!!

i was pissed off, but of course i didn't tell him off, coz i can't even b bothered to sit beside him.. wat an incivilised man.... nowadays ppl r so inconsiderate... as if his briefcase is so exp.. if thats the case, then fetch a cab or drive own car lah.. y bother to take a public transport n squeeze with other ppl?? i regretted for not driving... coz i hate to see such a man! somemore he's a guy...

luckily he's not handsome, otherwise i think he can just jump into the river n kill himself.. but anyway, he's not handsome loh,that makes me felt **********.... y is there such a man,i hate men who is so selfish.. he better reflect on his behaviour loh... oh my god... wat a man!!

Jie Mei gathering 12-08-07

I had my 1st gathering with my fellow jie meis at west mall today... so glad that they made the effort to attend, though i've already informed them last month of today's gathering...

i had my wedding prog, duty list ready... so each of them had 1 folder which contains all necessary information..

We had a great chat, though all of them come from diff groups of friends.. glad that they r communicating well with one another... Let me intro my jie mei gang to all of u,i have 5, and they r: my helpful cousin Liling, my naughty n cheerful sec sch frd Joreen, my best friend in NIE Jie En, my good friend cum colleague Weixin, n lastly, the 1 who didn't manage to attend, my elder sis Angie..

Jas was around with us,as i need her to help out in some way or another, esp the evening event... glad that she offered her help out of voluntary! thanks pal!

we even came up with some games to play on the AD event, to tekan the brother gang... of course i won't reveal it here... will have another gathering soon,to update them on the guest list, sitting arrangement, n getting the materials needed for the games... I'm very grateful to them, as they r willing to help me out on my very special day... we had a great 3hr+ chat at coffee bean... though my wedding day is still 4 months away, but i believe that,if we were to prepare things early, the hiccups will b lesser... we can't prevent hiccups from happening, but we can try our best to reduce it to the lowest... Thanks my fellow jie meis!!!! =)