Sis left for Ireland

My sis got a job back in Dublin, n left on Wed 15July.

I was sad of course, but for her happiness, she has to go. this is e fact tat we have to accept n wish her for..

it wasnt easy for any1 to see this situation, after all we r all here in spore, n she needs to go so far to pursue her happiness.

I am happy for her tat she is so near to receive her happiness. she wont b happy if she continues to stay here. both my bro n I are married, n now it should be her turn to find hers. she has found, n now she is going after it.

we will still meet though it will b difficult... whenever i think of her, i would feel empty, bcoz i got used to her going Amore with me, going massage with me. from now on, i have to go all on my own. kind of lonely.

without us realising, she has been back for 5 yrs... we had been too comfortable tat we didnt realise about the time that she has been back here in spore. it is not easy to maintain a long distance r/ship, n it was great to see that they have been maintaining it well.

I know happiness is now approaching her, n i feel really happy for my sis. i need some time to adjust w/o her by my side. i was crying badly but i dun want her to see that. it was tough for me.

I wish her happiness n i koe she will be. love u a lot, my dear sis.. hope to see u soon in Ireland.

I love my prince charming

Many ppl who koe me well enuf should know who my prince charming is... I love him for so many years, n til now i still love him... My idol Julian Cheung Chi Lam

I watched the recent variety show which he participated in, together with his wife Anita Yuen, n 2 other couples on 一路上有你.....




I loved him, he is just too cute n himself.. despite being a 43 year old man, a husband, a father, he is still rather childish... not just his looks... He didnt really changed much after many years.

This show is funny, especially most of the captions... This grp of ppl who created the show is smart i should say.

They recorded this series in Korea. N could see how each couple communicated n loved each other. Chilam & Anita had been together for 20 over years, n i really think it is not easy.

I started liking Chilam when i watched him starring Yang Guo... he always have those roles which is devoted man n always get hurt kind... besides his acting, i super love his big round eyes! n of course his height. It is just so perfect. If i can ever see him in person n take a picture with him, i think i may laugh til cannot sleep. Haha.

Though i dislike his hairdo for 冲上云霄, but his big round eyes make u just cannot take your eyes off him.n of course his dimples too. Oh my, he is just so attractive isnt he?

He may not be the best sweet tongue man in the earth. He may not be those 稳重型.... But he is indeed a HK man who many women admire. I really look forward to him taking up more TV series. Miss his shows actually... Haha.. I still prefer to watch him as a policeman, or a devoted man. 

Chilam, u are always my idol.... 

Exercising

Last weekend we watched the Sea Games Netball match between Spore & Malaysia... We were v proud to say the girls had played well n won themselves a gold medal! Congrats!

At the same time, we felt proud to be once a netball player. There are 7 positions in a team...
Goalkeeper (GK); Goal Defence (GD); Wing Attack (WA); Wing Defence (WD); Goal Attack (GA); Centre (C); Goal Shooter (GS).

Game rules, u have to go online n read on your own, haha. Mainly my position is GS, main shooter for the team. Occasionally i do play C too. My sis is mainly playing GA, shooter too.

I missed my netball days, but i dun miss the time that i had to be under the sun. Haha!

Yesterday, even my eyes were infected & inflammation, i wore my specs n joined my sis to go for a practice, just the 2 of us. We had fun n of course my shooting skills had deteriorated.. But we had a good sweat n exercise. I enjoyed playing netball still, really!

It's not easy to find a good kaki to exercise n play sports together. I might be a bit ego, in the sense that i do not like to play a sport with someone who is v green. i like to play with mature players. that will have the kick.

We will try to go for more practice on our own. I enjoyed spending time with my sis a lot, and very soon she will b leaving to move back to Ireland. I hope to play more games with her before she moves back. 

Port Dickson Trip 2D1N: 31 May-1 June 2015

This is our 2nd trip in a team of 4.... We spent our long weekend for Vesak Day in Port Dickson.

Left on 31 May and came back on 1 June. A short trip of 2D1N. We met as early as 8am at Keypoint, and set off frm there. Reached Port Dickson ard late noon.

It was a pleasant trip i should say. Relaxing, really. Away frm the city... 

We had thai massage outside from the chalet. Had a driver to fetch us to n fro. Can u imagine Thai massage at RM$29/hr. It's so cheap! my room mate for this trip is Shiyi, and she is a person with hearing impairment. But she is such a great friend cum travel mate! Despite of her disability to hear, but wears hearing aid, but she is very independent & can travel alone backpack! Salute!

When we reached & settled down, the girls went for banana boat ride as i was not feeling quite well. Water sports like kayak n jet ski are also available. There r 3 pools, sauna too. Really a good place to relax. There is a kids play room as well. Karaoke room too but we didnt have the extra time to try out that facility.

I like our room... too big to b true, really! If self drive there, can just book 1 chalet room which can accommodate 6 people! a small balcony which has good view. really smoothing! Restroom has bath area, bath tub, big place for washing up with 2 basins... 

None of us had been there b4, so we just try out lah as we couldnt decide on any place tat time, so it was quite a rush decision to go for this trip.

Short trip compared to our maiden trip to Bandung. Next plan is going elsewhere, n may plan to jio some other colleagues along. Venue TBC, date most prob will be next year. I enjoyed thai massage alot, n going to Bangkok soon 2 weeks later, which makes me so excited!

Shall start planning early for our 3rd trip together. Hope we can spend more days at the next venue!

Company Team Bonding 16-05-15

Initially, the company team bonding was scheduled in March, but was postponed due to the passing of Mr LKY. So, after 1.5months of postponement, the event was held last Sat at ECP.

It was really a hot sunny day to start off a Saturday. The weather blessed us but i find it far too sunny.

We were divided into 8 groups.. n I am the captain for Grp1. The members we had are all over different teams & divisions. I had poor knowledge & interest for Lego, so likewise, sandcastle isn't my forte too.

I do not like to visit a beach, n play with sand... but we were supposed to build sandcastle, n i had difficulties, as i am lousy at 3D.. Haha...

After some discussions, we had an idea in mind. All worked together as a team, regardless of ranks, depts, divisions... this is the purpose of the event. Even CEO, GD, D, DD.. all must join in... It was fun...

There wasn't any winner nor loser. My team got the most professional team award. Bcoz the planning committee mentioned we were so serious in discussing n had shown professionalism. Tats funny by e way. All grps get different sorts of 'presents' n awards.... All thanks to the witty Victor... Haha...

It was a great chance for every1 to b together and work together as a team. I am sure every1 had fun.. Lucky, thanks to the sunblock spray i bought online previously, which was shipped from Korea. It was good, n surprisingly, in the past if i go such event, i will sure b so tanned like a Malay, but mayb due to this spray, i did turn a bit tan, but not so much! But............. i lost it when e event ended. Never mind! i managed to find it again online n had ordered again!

We are entitled for 1 day off... N i shall start looking at my calendar to see which day i wana take. This month is too busy for me, no way. Shall make myself b diligent again to update my blog. 

Random thoughts

I dunno what went wrong these few days, we r facing Javier's refusal to go school matter again...

He can scream & cry again this time round. Scream for me n ask me to come back.. Regardless how teacher tried to coax him, he refused to budge in.

This morn drama is affecting me alot. It affected my mood, n affected my timing to go work. It made me late for work quite a number of times, from 20-30min late.

This is not going to work leh. I dun like such drama. After school, he was happy n can even say school is so much fun. n said in chinese that he cannot cry. But when morn comes, the same drama comes back.

This is worse than the 1st time when he went in. Now he really screams, esp screams for me. Haiz, my heart cannot take it. But what can i do? I am in a dilemma now. N it is driving me nuts.

So sorry

I am so sorry for disappearing for 1month+...

I was very busy with work, n too tired & lazy to on my laptop at home. Haha... Just a quick update of wat i have been doing for the past 1 month.

I will be transferring to another department, wef 1Apr.. It's still under E&E umbrella but diff dept with diff job scopes. Now currently helping out at s2w (school-to-work) prog at NUH where e interns are doing work for 9months. this will be my new dept. In e newspapers, it's call transition to work. Where we help to find employment and provide job support for people with special needs after they graduate from their respective SPED schools. I feel v proud to be able to join this team. It will be v hectic but i am sure the sense of achievement will be great n satisfying. But of course, this wasn't my choice of transfer, but management think that i am more suitable here, so here i am.

We will b moving office to another block early next month. I have yet to pack my stuff. Now busy with s2w, and my current job scopes in training dept. No replacement yet so i am v tired.

i think i am in need to go overseas for a breather soon. Haha... Many things change in these few mths. I need more encouragement n support. I am sure i can do it... i will need to try my best. Give me your blessings. Thanks!