Monday, May 29, 2006

Indonesian Crisis


Just got home not long ago from dinner... was with Farhan, Xinyi, tingting, Jialiang, Kristene n Ngin Huay....
Then my sis told me a news that she'll be leaving for Indonesia 2mrw morn to help out in the crisis.. she'll b away for 10-14 days...
For some people who dunno wats going on... just to say that my sis is a nurse..... she is quite active in voluntary work n has volunteered to join in the first aid group to help out with the injured patients over there..
she was told that if she managed to receive a call from the hospital, then she'll b able to join the group.... n then she received the call.... she was rather excited n busy packing her stuff.... i believe she can be of a great help to the patients over there... i'm sure she can make it.... an enthusiast in her job... a person who showed her professionalism.... unlike me, i think i can't do it... of course not to say to be compared to her.... i'm not mark to it....
conditions over there is definitely not safe and advanced.... but my sis will sure adapt to the environment very fast..... from what we know from the news n newspaper, we know that the situation in Indonesia is becoming worse..... all medical stuff are ready to set off to help in any way or another... my sis is all ready to help out..... I know my capable sis can do it...... let us all pray for her ok?? kambate!!!

Sunday, May 14, 2006

No Strings Attached Relationship


No strings attached relationship?? wat is the correct definition of this?? well, mayb for those ppl who are going after such relationship will know the exact definition.... i don' know, n dun understand either...
as we grow older, we will wish to find some1 who can spend the rest of our lives together as a couple... but y do some ppl not think this way? do u really think by maintaining such relationship can bring u far far away?? wat if 1 day u finally found some1 who u wish to spend the rest of your life with?? if he/she finds out thats how u spent your life in the past, how would they react??
no strings attached's boundary is until where?? just holding hands n msg each other, care for each other when the other party needs concern?? or by having s** is also considered as a part of the relationship?? who can really tell me how they regard this relationship as??
i can't stop ppl who wants to have such relationship, bcoz some of them r not ready for a long term commitment... but if u were really to have such a 'courtship', then u shouldn't n u mustn't go for a target who is in your circle....
i have always thought that, i dun care the person u r flirting with, or how u flirt around, but NO NO NO!!! u can't find some1 who is in my circle.... that isn't the way u go on with your life.... u had unconciously invaded my life, but in an indirect way... it will affect me.... aren't u scared of retribution??? please, if ani1 of u engaging in such an activity, please make sure your target isn't any1 who is in your friend's circle.... u r happy, but u r upsetting your friend... please re-consider b4 u act ok??