Monday, February 25, 2013

HK series

I always like watching HK series, n if i can watch the original version, aka cantonese version, tat will b v shiok!!!


I like watching Raymond Lam's dramas... These few weeks were watching 回到三国... he is acting as Chugot Leong... Got abit of the style man.. storyline not bad, a pity that the final episode was stupid enough... Today is e last episode. Had been catching e drama every weekday 9pm, n ended at 9.45pm.. Poor Jav had to endure us watching e drama b4 bringing him home.. some days he really cannot tahan til 9.45pm, n ended up fussing n throwing temper.. so we had no choice but to leave in laws' house early to coax him sleep at home.. there r also times that he was so tired that when we were in e car, not even home yet n he fell asleep..

Last 2 weeks i was v happy.. bcoz Raymond Lam's next hot drama was out, 雷霆扫毒.. n it was screened on Sats n Suns, 7.45pm to 9.15pm.. Mon to Fri catch e 回到三国, weekends catch this... so addicting...

Raymond Lam's image in 雷霆扫毒 is very pleasing to e eye.. though looked somehow ruggard as a policeman, but i like it.. the hairstyle suits him alot..

Today is e end of 回到三国.. can only look forward to weekends... I find tat there r many good actors n actresses in HK... just tat some do not have e chance to shine.. But they r equally good as green leaves.. tat wat makes e drama nice to watch.. All ppl who koe how to act all act in a drama series... They koe how to engage good actors n actresses.. n not blindly get any dick or tom to act bcoz of trying to get that person fame.. Tats y i like watching HK series.. They oso treasure elderly actors n actresses... experienced actors n actresses add light to e dramas too..

Try watching 雷霆扫毒.. there r many good actors n actresses in this series...

Sunday, February 24, 2013

Chinese Lunar - Yuan Xiao

Today is the 15th day of the lunar chinese new year, last day of CNY, which we also call it Yuan Xiao Festival... Tmr is my lunar birthday.. haha...

Had a gathering at Gladys' house.. Long time didnt meet liao loh.. it was great having a catch up.. Brought Jaden there today.. Left Jav at in laws' house... Hubby is working today.. Tot of bringing Jaden over to catch up with his brothers n sister....

Jaden had a good time there.. Though some of e time he still preferred to play by himself, but at least there are times that he could sit down n play e same toy as Delroy, or Princeton..

Gladys ordered buffet from Neo Garden.. good choice n good food! The children played hard n the house was full of noise! Haha...

Yuan Xiao, the significant food to eat is tangyuan. Bought a packet to in laws' house, n we had our share of the tangyuan... Not v nice though... I shall buy another brand next time..

It's always fun to gather.. especially we r so close.. Jas wasnt feeling well, so didnt come today. Sad.. Hope she is feeling better...

I am looking forward to e next gathering, n hope by then TABLE is full attendance loh! Happy Yuan Xiao to every1, n hope all ppl will be together happily!

Friday, February 22, 2013

Do not touch my Saturdays!

I seldom wana talk abt work here... bcoz mostly wat i want is to share happy things...

But, when it comes to working on a Sat, i will b pissed to e max..

There r bound to have unhappiness, n that is normal.. Ard me, i even have irritating colleagues who r out-casts.. n now i have further understanding y such ppl just not being welcomed...

Many things i can do for u.... But, when it comes to working on Sat, i really do not like it.. how to balance at all?

In e beginning, when e 5-days work week idea was out, i was v pleased.. but i realised it is not tat 5-days work week at all.. who would c we bring work home?? many spent weekends marking... so how is it a 5-day work week?

It's stated tat we could only b touched 4 Sats a year... R u sure we only need to b activated for 4 Sats a year? I dun think so..

I almost dun bring work home. All bcoz spending so much energy at work, it is time to rest after stepping out of the work place... I have hsechores waiting for me, i have my sons waiting.. The price to pay for not bringing work home is to go workplace earlier the next day to clear...

Hubby's shift starts from a Sunday, so practically Sat will b v precious.. Some ppl may not b calculative, but if it clashes with my Sat, i will b calculative. Some ppl dun mind coming back to work on Sats, but i mind, i am sorry. I need more balance.

There is no such thing as BALANCE. It is really hard. How to find a better solution to get e balance? I am not sure. But something for sure, be prepared to see my banana face when u ask me to come back on a Sat to work..

Sunday, February 17, 2013

7th day of CNY - ren ri

Yesterday was every1's bday, 7th day of CNY.. which is also the ren ri...

Hubby ordered pen cai n curry fish head from st91's zhu chao stall.. while MIL cooked some vege n wu xiang... she did e wu xiang all by her own... homemade...

Hubby's sis n family came over for dinner.. gugu oso came.. played mj as usual.. jingfang came over awhile n left b4 e dinner started...

It's just a simple dinner... the curry fish head was too spicy for me... pen cai wise, ok lah.. i dun eat abalone, scallop mah.. so ate e duck meat n roasted meat inside...

I remembered when we were younger, CNY was always full of joy n noise.. but when i grew older, CNY seemed to b boring... like no much atmosphere... if in e beginning we have no children, i may most prob go overseas for CNY, just like when we were always away for Xmas...

Weekends always come n go very fast... It's great tat ren ri lies on a weekend.. no need to go out eat n squeeze with the crowd.. eat at home is also good! homecook food always taste better, dunno y... Haha... but aniway, i felt good tat lucky i know how to cook... Hubby always looks forward to me cooking..

after ren ri, 9 more days n will b my lunar birthday.. well, i dun celebrate that at all.. CNY will b over in a week's time... hope everything goes better this year!

Saturday, February 09, 2013

My 31st bday cum CNY eve

I am extremely excited this year about my birthday, all bcoz it lies on CNY eye.. Thanks all for your blessings, n thank u for remembering my birthday...

Yesterday, hubby treated me to a nice buffet! Yummy, we were both so full.. He surprised me with a small bouquet of blue roses! Thanks hubby..

Today, we had 2 reunion dinners to attend... 1st to my popo house... next to my small gugu house...

My sis n cousins went to buy a bday cake for me.. i was happy of course.. cheesecake leh! Haha..

My shifu bought me a present, Jas bought me a mirror, siblings got me a Esprit watch, n tats blue colour! SIL Yinghui made us a can of biscuits, n bought Angry Birds biscuits for the boys... So nice of her... Thanks all..

This year's CNY is different, bcoz we r spending it in Spore, n not Msia... Our 1st time as a family..

It is not easy as this is our 1st time, but i koe there'll b a 2nd, 3rd etc.... Haha..

Last but not least, thanks again for u guys to remember my bday. All i wish for is great health...

My best friends 05-02-13

They were my best friends, all thanks to CSS, who made us meet.. Kelly n Jas were my secondary school classmates since Sec1.. all e way to sec5...

Jas was e 1st friend whom i knew in CSS... we sat together on e 1st day of school.. Haha...

Jas' bday is 1 week b4 mine.. so we met up for dinner on Tues, together with Kelly. Didnt ask my secretary Gladys... bcoz she stayed quite far from us, so didnt ask her..

We had a great chat.. We were just so close, going to be friends for 2 decades, can u imagine?? 2 more years n our frdship will mark into e 2nd decade. time flies, really!

If it's not for CSS, we would never meet. I treasure my frdship with them, all bcoz they r very real.. We can talk abt anything under e sun, and we r frank towards one another...

Though recently we r all busy, tat we had not met up for quite some time.. Shld start our TABLE gathering soon..

Sunday, February 03, 2013

做人不要那么骄傲

没有人是绝对完美的,那若是如此,就没有必要骄傲.

人,可以自豪,但不是骄傲,不是炫耀.

在我所知道的事实是,真正有本事,真正富有的,是非常含蓄低调的.

为什么我们的身边时常出现那些傲慢,自以为是的人呢?事实上,这些是所谓破坏"行情"的人.这些是属于"半天吊"的人.的确有些出色,的确有些钱,但不属于名副其实.我周围有几个真的富有,真的聪明能干,但他们宁愿低调,不嚣张.

我们这种平凡到不行的人呢?往往羡慕旁人,甚至嫉妒.后来经过多次"磨练",我终于有了新的领悟.我发现,虽然自己平凡无比,但我还是有些优点是那种人期盼不到的..他们也会有某个地方羡慕我的.

这些迫不及待炫耀的人,其实是内心自卑的..我们应该可怜他们才对...我们平凡,但平凡得自豪..不是因为没有东西可以拿出来炫耀,而是觉得没有那个必要...我们所拥有的平凡,他们肯定没有.. 互相羡慕就好,不用绞尽脑汁想,到底可以拿出家里的什么来向他人炫耀...

我觉得我先生,虽是一个再平凡不过的男人,但他从未想过要向别人炫耀些什么... 他是潮州人,但没有潮州人的骄傲...

做人总的来说,还是脚踏实地... 好高务远的性格绝对要丢弃.. 可能是人的本性,好强是证明给别人看说自己有多出色... 我不喜欢阿谀奉承,我更厌恶自相残杀... 人们原本可以和睦相处,不用做小人... 但现实毕竟残酷,现实是现实... 每个人为了自己,不惜牺牲他人... 安分守己,相当重要... 知足,多好... 我要警戒自己... 知足...

Friday, February 01, 2013

weird dream

After eating medicine last night, i slept early, but when morn i got up, i was worried... all bcoz i had a weird dream... which i remembered clearly even though i got up...

it was regarding hubby n me... dreamt tat hubby got himself a lover... n wats worse was, the lover was pregnant with his child... wat made me unhappy was, the lover was fatter than me, looks wise was lower than average...

in e dream, i was mad.. with no argument nor fighting, i went to in laws' house n brought my sons away. told my in laws what hubby did, n said i wanted a divorce... i told them, u guys can forget about getting us back, definitely no turning back for him... Jaden n Javier are going to b with me no matter what...

I had a hard time working to earn as much $$ as possible to keep us 3 full... it was a nightmare... i never expected to dream something so ridiculous.

I told hubby about the dream. I told him to reassure me that he still loves me... He said i was thinking far too much.

Although i dunno y i would dream something like tat, but e feeling wasn't good. Many ppl will tell me how good hubby is, but i can b sure of is, when some1 wants to betray their spouse, they will.. regardless what kind of person he/she is... of course i do not wish such thing to happen... i am quite sure that if, hubby were to really do that, i will definitely react e same way as i were in e dream... i will bring my sons away.. dun ever dream to fight with me for any of them. i would never let any of my son to leave me... I think I really need to see a psychologist soon.. such brain has been bugging me since i'm preg with Javier.. no improvement at all... i think something is wrong with me..