Sunday, January 14, 2007

Higher qualification of parents = worse discipline of children

Y do i say that? i found out that the more educated the parents are in this century, will produce worse ill-bred children.... y is that so ah??? but of course i must explain, not ALL r like that...

In my teaching days, i encountered a lot of spoilt brats in the school, including in my class... N i really hate their behaviour..... but NOT ALL kids r like that though... whether the kid behaves well or not, it all depends on their upbringing... Do u agree?

I must really criticise the parents who spoil their kids til the extend that they allow kids to scream n shout aniwhere they want.... even when the kids did something wrongly, parents can simply let them off just like that... of course i'm not implying that parents should punish their precious in front of the public lah... that is such a lose of face... but at least tell them seriously about the consequences....

Just now, i was at West Mall with my parents, 4th uncle n aunt.... my car was parked at B2, so we need to travel up from the escalator.... who knows halfway up, a small boy pressed the 'STOP' button, n the escalator stopped suddenly n gave us a shock... Do u realise how dangerous it was?? luckily we held on to the handle... otherwise we would fall.... but the parents didn't even hold the child properly.. n the most impt thing was, they did not apologize to us!!!! the grandma kept looking at us... look 4 wat??? shit lah.... should say SORRY man... y? their mouths very expensive isit?? i was scolding them from up there.... i shouted, hey, please discipline your kid, such a poor discipline... wasn't i right for scolding them like that?? the parents dissapear from my sight, leaving the grandma n the kid facing me..... What the heck?????

I hate such discipline of children... thats y last thursday when i was in my p1 class, i oso cannot tahan them.. scolded them upside down... told them i'm not some1 to b trifled with, i told them not to behave the way they used to do at home... coz i never tolerate such behaviour... n i told them i can b very nice, n i can be VERY harsh too... i told them to behave well during my class n dun try to b special, or else i'll scold them n punish them...

This generation's kids r all so precious isit?? u can love n pamper them.. but u must oso show them what can b done n wat can't b done.... what if elderly people r on the escalator?? what if they fell down n got hurt?? These people r all so irresponsible.... PLEASE lah.. if dunno how to teach children, then dun give birth to them lah.... what a disaster... i really cannot tolerate such scene u know??? people may say i'm very fierce n strict towards young kids like them... but as i always say, dun let them b so wild n think that they can behave so spoiltly in front of anybody n ani place.... parents dunno how to teach, then let me teach them what is a good behaviour.... i dun care how u behave at home, but dun ever try that in front of me..... i dun take that.....

The more i thought of it, the angrier i am..... If u feel guilty after reading this post, that means u have to reflect on how have u been teaching n pampering your kids.... it's time 4 u to change.... or i shouldn't say 'change'... but please 'improve'..... dun over-pamper your children... or else in the future, they won't b much of a contribution to the family n the country.... think it over carefully, PARENTS!!! esp those highly-educated parents..

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