Downcounting 4 months to my Big Day!

Here i am again... downcounting to my big day...

Let me think,wat do i have to update?? hmm... i got it! my ang bao box is almost done... the wedding bears n ribbon are already on the box... i just need slightly more decor to the box, n yet not exaggerating....

If nothing goes wrong,i'll b going down to Seletar Broadway to view my wedding album layout.. i'm keeping my fingers cross... hope i can go down n view... coz i'm looking forward... hehe

I've done the collation of the games that we'll b playing on my big day... but haven't show the draft to my jie meis... will meet them up most prob in late october to show them,n oso to go buy the necessary stuff for the games... but something to b sad,yesterday i saw some candles,which r very nice,n suitable for my jie meis to hold during the march in.. but today when i go gek poh n see,hopefully to purchase them,but they r already out of stock!!! oh my god... need to source similar nice candles at other places....

There r some more things which i need to look into... i need to search for red heart shape balloons... as i need them for my ROM solemnisation ceremony.... Review of the whole prog for the day; meeting up with the jie meis to get the things bought; arrange a date for the jie meis n xiong dis to go HIA to practise on the march in etc.. more things to b done n assessed for the next coming few months b4 my wedding... Hope everything goes on smoothly!!

LOVE - to love, or not to love

　有人为爱而生，有人不需要爱的滋润。有些人不能没有爱情，但也有人能在没有爱情的情况下，活得多姿多彩。那，到底爱是可有还是可无？

　有人失去爱情，就无法生存。有人拥有爱情，又不会珍惜。俗话说的好，等到失去了才知道什么是珍惜。我记得曾经听过有人告诉我，人生若缺少了爱情，生活就会变得非常枯燥乏味。有了爱情，人生才会精彩。可是，当人失恋了，那种过程却是很难熬的，整日就像度日如年。我也曾经拥有甜蜜的爱情，也曾经尝过苦果。笑容以及眼泪也跟着爱情的脚步和节奏一次一次地浮现在表情丰富的脸蛋上。

　幸福和悲哀往往只是一线之差，我们都没有权利和选择。可以把责任推给在上天的月老吗？幸福，多亏月老眷恋自己、爱惜自己，才使自己拥有幸福的滋味。悲哀，就怨天尤人。怨月老，怪他牵错红线，导致自己陷入堕落的深渊。

　我知道拥有爱情的利与弊。因为度过两种极端的滋味，才让我领略到，爱情是不能强求的。曾经奢望会有奇迹的出现，一盼就盼了许多年。曾经以为是理所当然，所以不懂珍惜，导致错过良好姻缘。曾经受过从未发生在自己身上的极度伤害，才领悟到爱情所带来的灾害。到底，拥有爱情是好的还是坏的？我相信，人各有志。每个人对爱情的解说都不一样。

　经过无数的经历，不管是甜蜜的还是痛苦的，这些都是成年往事，应该随着云烟飘散而去。人要往前走，这点我知道。我也正在努力地往这个方向前进。经过这么多的事情，让我对爱情有新的一套说法。原来，伤心不是最痛苦的，要彻底地忘记一个人是那么难的事。事实是不能抵赖的。我们可以做的是，把这个无法忘记的人，永远地埋藏在自己的心里，而且是放在最重要的地方。幸福，不是一定要拥有这个人，而是给他自由。他幸福，就是自己幸福。我也在给自己空间，让自己幸福。
　

Inconsiderate people

it has been quite some time ever since i took a bus... still got take bus lah, but not so frequent...

Last friday,i was conducting PSLE oral at a school which is very near to my house, so i didn't drive... Bong acc me to the school, n when i finished, he came to fetch me... after the Oral,we were waiting for 243 to go JP for lunch... just when we went up the bus, there was this guy,who is extremely selfish n inconsiderate.. we were standing, n he has 1 vacant seat,but he chose to place his briefcase there,n thus no 1 can sit beside him... n he was trying to act blur n etc.. the sight of him made me feel like puking!!!

i was pissed off, but of course i didn't tell him off, coz i can't even b bothered to sit beside him.. wat an incivilised man.... nowadays ppl r so inconsiderate... as if his briefcase is so exp.. if thats the case, then fetch a cab or drive own car lah.. y bother to take a public transport n squeeze with other ppl?? i regretted for not driving... coz i hate to see such a man! somemore he's a guy...

luckily he's not handsome, otherwise i think he can just jump into the river n kill himself.. but anyway, he's not handsome loh,that makes me felt **********.... y is there such a man,i hate men who is so selfish.. he better reflect on his behaviour loh... oh my god... wat a man!!

Jie Mei gathering 12-08-07

I had my 1st gathering with my fellow jie meis at west mall today... so glad that they made the effort to attend, though i've already informed them last month of today's gathering...

i had my wedding prog, duty list ready... so each of them had 1 folder which contains all necessary information..

We had a great chat, though all of them come from diff groups of friends.. glad that they r communicating well with one another... Let me intro my jie mei gang to all of u,i have 5, and they r: my helpful cousin Liling, my naughty n cheerful sec sch frd Joreen, my best friend in NIE Jie En, my good friend cum colleague Weixin, n lastly, the 1 who didn't manage to attend, my elder sis Angie..

Jas was around with us,as i need her to help out in some way or another, esp the evening event... glad that she offered her help out of voluntary! thanks pal!

we even came up with some games to play on the AD event, to tekan the brother gang... of course i won't reveal it here... will have another gathering soon,to update them on the guest list, sitting arrangement, n getting the materials needed for the games... I'm very grateful to them, as they r willing to help me out on my very special day... we had a great 3hr+ chat at coffee bean... though my wedding day is still 4 months away, but i believe that,if we were to prepare things early, the hiccups will b lesser... we can't prevent hiccups from happening, but we can try our best to reduce it to the lowest... Thanks my fellow jie meis!!!! =)

wedding updates II

Another thing settled... We got our solemnisor to sign the form already... This solemnisor is 1 of my sec sch frd, Michelle's FIL... a few months ago,we were chatting abt our wedding prep, then she asked me if i had found a solemnisor for our ROM,n i said not yet... wat a coincidence is, Bong wanted a solemnisor conducting the ceremony in Chinese,n her FIL is doing solemnisation ceremony is Chinese too.. so we approached him for help... We had delayed passing him the form to sign,so yesterday, we went down to let him sign...

Michelle was born on the same year,month,day as me... twin sisters ah.. hehe.. n another thing that is similar btwn the both of us is, we r getting married in the same month, but luckily not on the same day! =)

We got our form ready, now is to wait for the ROM office to release the date for us to register our marriage... i think must wait til the end of Sept then got our date...

Next thing to update is,we finally finished tying our inserts into the invitation cards liao!!! YES!!! we bundled them up in 10s..so that when we r going to write on the invitation cards,it's easier,n when distributing, will distribute in tables... =)

Well well well, so far is like that... in these coming 2 weeks, i gotta make sure i must not b lazy again... i must start decorating the ang bao box!!!

Bong's 27th birthday 03/08/2007

This will be the last birthday i'll be celebrating with Bong, as his girlfriend... coz from next year onwards,we'll b celebrating each other's birthday as husband & wife... it is a completely different situation n status...

His birthday lies on a Friday,unluckily i had to work,so decided to meet him after work to IMM... we had Fish & Co for dinner... Actually wanted to go Riverside there eat steak... but bcoz his injury has not fully recovered, scared that his scar will b affected if eat seafood or what,so to play safe,we eat fish... =)

Luckily,we need not wait for too long... normally if we go JP,the queue will b so long that i'll die of hunger.... IMM's branch also had queue,but at least it only took us less than 20min to get a seat.... n of course,our only food to order at Fish & Co is our favourite The Whole Line Fish!!!

The day b4 his birthday,we went for supper with my bro n my cousin Liling... we went to NUS prata shop,our usual supper venue... it's not just to eat supper,but to also celebrate his birthday together... every year,i would celebrate his birthday with him,but this year was diff... we had 2 more ppl to b around... we waited for the clock to strike 12am,then we sang him a birthday song, he making a wish, n blew out the candles, n lastly, cut the cake....

though it's just a simple celebration for him, but i just want him to know that celebrating own birthday is only once a year.... No matter what his wish is, i just hope it will come true... cannot reveal the wish ok??? =)