I think I am really blessed that both my children are of the same gender.. I am feeling more appreciative now, especially when Javier is growing up, learning to walk n talk..
He can play together with korkor Jaden, n sometimes they can really play ball together n laugh out loud together...
Of course, sis n bro can also be so happy n playing together... but whenever i see them, i feel that yes, same gender oso good... they can share everything, anything.. boy n girl somehow still have some 'distance'..
There r times when they cannot get along well. Jaden will b so angry with Javier that he will cry n ask me to carry Javier away from him. Javier will also b mad at korkor that he will keep pointing at Jaden n cry.. somehow complaining about korkor.
We teach Jaden to talk to Javier. When he need something from didi, he must ask didi to give korkor. We also teach Javier to learn to share n listen to instructions. Javier will pass it to Jaden at times. There will b times that Jaden will b so mad that didi refused to listen to him.
Dun expect any peace when there r more than 1 child at home. Sure quarrel n fight. Luckily Jaden is a gentle boy.. or else i think Javier is going to b in deep shit. Javier needs to learn more how to b a better boy.
They will sayang each other when they r in good relations. Javier somehow seemed to b harsher, thus scaring off Jaden at times. Though sometimes i do feel that it is a regret not having a girl, but a sibling for Jaden is really v good, gender not impt animore. But mayb in this case, a didi is more suitable for Jaden. Jaden is more aware that there is 1 more person in his life, n that is didi.
I don't dare to desire much, i only hope they can b support to each other, love each other, n learn to take care of each other. They r e reasons for us to live on. I want to see them growing up happily n healthily.
I think i need some time to adjust to work life.. Haha.. after having a break from end Nov to end Dec.. Haha... Mayb partly bcoz of the HK trip, i am just not ready for work!
Javier was sick on e 1st week of my work.. ended up me catching his bug on e 2nd wk of work.. 2 days mc bcoz of bad running nose. Javier took more than 1 week to recover... thus making me more tired than ever.
He couldn't sleep well.. blocked nose, cough, fever.. every 2-3hr ended up whining n crying. last Sat he had bad rashes on e body.. Doc said was infection.. But luckily, he recovered fully this week.. phew...
Workload this year, i can say.. is a little better than last year. I have no much projs on hand this year... no much jobs for me. timetable wise, is worse than last year...
It's a brand new year... It's still a long way down e road to the end.. oppsss... just e start n now i am thinking of the end of e year. Oppppsss...
This year's CNY, we will b spending in Spore... our 1st time, n i hope it'll b a smooth n enjoyable one for us... How i wish i can just spend 1 or 2 days, just to lie down on e bed n do nothing.... haha.. i koe it is impossible.. just let me dream...
Well, 1st week of work was over.. a 3-day working week for the 1st week..
Mayb bcoz of resting my throat from teaching for 1mth+, i got so so so tired for these 3 days.. exhausted.. haven started my teaching yet leh.. opppsss.. haha..
More on admin work for the week, tmr i am going to start teaching for my p2.. dun wish to rush like mad like last year again!!!
my P1 this year, i think may suck my blood... see how long i will need to thumb them down.. gotta start my 'orientation' with them tmr... mayb tue/wed then start the syllabus..
Javier was sick. brought him to the doc yest.. he had slight fever, til now still abit.. running nose, blocked nose, slight cough.. a package as usual.. sucks!
I had a tiring week, n yest didnt sleep well as he dun sleep well too.. Hope tonite will b better.. hope not spread to Jaden... Jaden once kenna such package, will b quite bad...
Jaden is a good boy.. though still throw tantrums.. his term will start this wednesday... MIL will bring him as hubby needs to work.. hope he can b a better boy this year.. haha...
Pls pray for me, 2013 will b better ok?
Well, our 5th wedding anniversary has just passed 2 days ago, 30th Dec... Hubby surprised me by buying a blue rose for me.. no celebration this year as we were handling e boys. lazy to go out too..
How did we do the countdown for 2013? Sleep... slept early b4 11pm yesterday night...
Today is the start of 2013, tmr is e official day of my work... hope everything goes on smoothly for this year...
I have no new resolutions yet.. let me have some time to sit down n think about it. Haha...
Jaden will also resume his school days tmr too. Hope he will behave n b obedient. Hubby will b bringing him back n fro.. He better listen to daddy, or else he will need some caning again.. It'll b a v busy week for us.. 1st few weeks of work is always like that.. Hope i can survive loh. Tmr night still need to go fetch my bro n future SIL from their BKK trip.. Flight should b ard 11pm if not wrong, or else gotta wait til 12am.. Yawn..
Need to reach sch slightly earlier as we r having a meeting. Hope my boys can adapt me going back to work after resting for 1mth+... Good boy Jaden ok? Must b obedient. Teacher teaches what must absorb n do according. At home pls listen to daddy, ah gong n ah ma ok?
Pls do not let me go work with an unrest mind. Let me have a good start for 2013... My boys, my life. Pls be good boys. Come back i will sayang u.. =)
