My boys

I think I am really blessed that both my children are of the same gender.. I am feeling more appreciative now, especially when Javier is growing up, learning to walk n talk..

He can play together with korkor Jaden, n sometimes they can really play ball together n laugh out loud together...

Of course, sis n bro can also be so happy n playing together... but whenever i see them, i feel that yes, same gender oso good... they can share everything, anything.. boy n girl somehow still have some 'distance'..

There r times when they cannot get along well. Jaden will b so angry with Javier that he will cry n ask me to carry Javier away from him. Javier will also b mad at korkor that he will keep pointing at Jaden n cry.. somehow complaining about korkor.

We teach Jaden to talk to Javier. When he need something from didi, he must ask didi to give korkor. We also teach Javier to learn to share n listen to instructions. Javier will pass it to Jaden at times. There will b times that Jaden will b so mad that didi refused to listen to him.

Dun expect any peace when there r more than 1 child at home. Sure quarrel n fight. Luckily Jaden is a gentle boy.. or else i think Javier is going to b in deep shit. Javier needs to learn more how to b a better boy.

They will sayang each other when they r in good relations. Javier somehow seemed to b harsher, thus scaring off Jaden at times. Though sometimes i do feel that it is a regret not having a girl, but a sibling for Jaden is really v good, gender not impt animore. But mayb in this case, a didi is more suitable for Jaden. Jaden is more aware that there is 1 more person in his life, n that is didi.

I don't dare to desire much, i only hope they can b support to each other, love each other, n learn to take care of each other. They r e reasons for us to live on. I want to see them growing up happily n healthily.