I was lucky enough to knock off from work at 11.30am after the last day of PSLE marking.... my other colleagues still stuck in their respective marking centres, so i decided to go home.... went to JP for lunch with my brother.... We were talking about some ppl in our lives.. then heard him saying a sentence which i agreed... he said that when a r/ship failes, don't ever blame the other party for having a new love or watsoever reason... just blame ownself..... i pondered a while n then found that wat he said was rather logical... Y does your partner choose to leave u after a few years of courtship?? if u r really good enough to make them stay by your your side, it wouldn't ended up this way... so we should reflect on y
this matter happens if your partner leaves u for some1 else.. If partner leaves u for another new love, then ask yourself... y he/she leave u for the other person?? y u choose such a person in the beginning??? in what way the 3rd party is better than u? I really thought thru this matter..... i think if we ourselves are so good, partners won't leave u, even if u r broke or not outstanding in appearance..... this is also all about mutual trust.... For those people who love to grumble y their partners chose to end the r/ship, now is the time for u to reflect on the reasons.... we Man never admit the flaws in us... we only know how to push the blame to the other party that they caused us hurt n pain..... i think it's also time for me to think it over prudently on my perspective in life n love....
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