Our 2 precious gems

We had a full 24/7 with our boys for e past 4 days... PILs went back to msia for tomb sweeping since thur, n was back only yesterday night...

Our precious boys stayed with us for the whole long wkend... It was tiring, but yet enriched. We do not have a maid, so everything need to do ourselves. MIL handles Jaden more for us, Jav is harder to handle, so we handle ourselves.

Javier is v naughty now. VERY... he bullies Jaden at times. He will use his smelly pillow n hit Jaden. Snatch each other's toys etc... Can b noisy at home.. cannot prevent lah, got kids sure got noise. But something cute is, they like to bathe together, squeeze together in e tub.

Luckily, they r of e same gender. If 1 is boy n e other is girl, i dun think i will be comfortable to allow them to bathe together, though ppl may say, they r still young, it's ok. But to me, once they r born, different gender means different, even if young, i oso dun think i will let them bathe together.

Jaden n Jav dun look alike, coz 1 look like hubby n e other look like me. Pray hard both of them will b tall guys... Certain angle they do look ok, but straight to e face, they r just different. They like to play water n bathe together. I think though they have no conversation like that, but it's a voiceless kind of bonding.

Night time, Jaden sleeps with me, while hubby sleeps with Jav... Jaden will not want to sleep with hubby.. Luckily Jav is ok with hubby. In fact, he always calls out to papa... n starts his baby language...

Though they do 'fight', but i find it ok that Jaden is a tame boy. He wont hit Javier. If he does, the whole family will b in chaos everyday, will b just like going on a war. Javier is stepping into his terrible 2, i hope it can pass ASAP... i buay tahan his behaviour! Haha... It is a passing phase. I hope they can always b together n learning to accept n love each other. They r priceless gems, gift of our love. I hope they can b a better person, to b liked by every1. Please be good boys ok?